Bouquets

I have not been able to shake the thought of lovely button bouquets (thanks Meg!). After seeing this one on Letters4Lilly's Etsy page, I fell in love all over again. My grandmother and great-grandmother had a lot of brooches. Some were just Avon pieces from 20+ years ago, but there are some really unique ones in the bunch.

So...I'm going to attempt to make my button bouquet! I ordered a vintage tin filled with mixed cream/white buttons from Ebay, which should be arriving soon. Give me some wire and needle-nosed pliers and I'll be on my way. It should be interesting to see, especially since I don't consider myself especially crafty. Wish me luck!

Bridesmaid dresses

I am having the HARDEST time picking these things out! Here's the deal: I want my girls to be able to wear them again. Yes, everyone says that about all dresses (particularly anything black and/or short), but it's very rarely true. Short dresses have the "casual" factor that lends them to being re-worn, but fabric has to be a consideration as well. For my three or four readers out there, I need your advice! Here are the "issues" I've been having.

1.) Length - one of the bridesmaids wants a long dress, but I had my heart set on short. I can't decide if longer will be better in case the weather turns off cold, if I should let them mix and match, or if I should just go with all one style in a cocktail length?

2.) Styles - my girls all have very different shapes. Should I pick a color and let them choose their dress? If I'm going with a non-David's bridesmaid dress, this lovely royal blue boatneck is my first choice. It's by Alfred Sung for Dessy. Most of my girls are "blessed", so I like that we won't have to worry about anything showing that isn't supposed to. If I go with a David's Bridal dress, my favorite can be found here (in Horizon).

3.) Fabric - Satin is so lovely in a wedding. It has that glamorous vibe that most women want for their attendants. However, I'm almost 100% positive that a royal blue satin dress will probably remain in a closet tomb once the big day has come and gone. BM Anna and I talked about a shantung, a fabric that looks like silk but is not. However, I can't find that in the color I want...sadness. So, I thought about a cotton sateen. This fabric is casual enough to be worn again, yet has a little bit of "sheen" to dress it up. I'm wearing a dress in this fabric for Libby and Edmound's wedding next month and I love the dress so much, I can't wait to wear it to work (with a black cardigan, of course!). Anna says that cotton sateen may be too much like Spring/Summer. What do you guys think?

So...I've rambled on enough for today. Any advice you future or former brides have would be much, much appreciated.

Invitations

I'm working with the super awesome Lauren Minors, one of my sorority sisters and the proprietor of Asterisk Consulting, for the design of my invites and S-T-D's. You can be her fan on Facebook by clicking here. She's incorporating the apple theme into the invites and the proofs I've seen so far are lovely.

As for the paper, I have been through many debates. At first, I was taking inspiration from The Budget Savvy Bride's paper choices, which were metallic. I found some great deals on one of the sites she used, Envelope Mall, and ordered some samples. Turns out I'm not so keen on metallics after all. I've never been a glitter, shiny, princess-y girl so it just wasn't me. If it is you though, you CANNOT beat Envelope Mall's prices. Seriously.

So, after much searching and many (many) paper sample orders, I decided to go back to a site I hadn't visited in a while. Cards & Pockets has fantastic, pre-cut invitation assembly pieces in matte and metallic colors. They also have pocket, gate and zig-zag fold invites. With all the parts I'll need, I'm estimating my total bill to be $120. Can't beat it, can you?

Favors

When we got engaged, I told myself that I was not going to do favors. I thought they were wastes of money and time. I didn't think any of my guests would want a frame/bar of soap/candle with our names and wedding date. When I told my mom that I wasn't going to do the imprinted cocktail napkins, I think the poor woman died a little on the inside. I'm still hoping to talk her out of the napkins (or order just one set for her), but I did run across this idea on Martha Stewart Weddings.


The company that makes these lollipops, Ju-C Suckers, has tons of different styles, flavors and colors (one is even "sweet tea"--for real). I think I'm going to replicate the Martha Stewart idea using these apple shaped lollipops.

The small one on the left is $0.50 and the large one is $0.95. Ju-C Suckers will send them to you wrapped in cellophane (like in the photo above-you provide the ribbon) with a custom label on the back. LOVE IT!

flowers

Two great ideas for budget-friendly flowers for the bridesmaids. My bouquet, of course, will be different. Haven't ruled out the button one yet, Meg!

Carnations and baby's breath. Seriously. (And not together).

Carnations:
I have always had an aversion to carnations. To me, they've always looked like cheap, filler funeral flowers. Well, guess what readers? I was WRONG! Carnations can be absolutely GORGEOUS when composed in the right way. Take a look at these photos.













How can I hate carnations now?

The pink bouquet above was made with flowers found at the local supermarket! Seriously! And since carnations cost about $0.65 per stem (where roses cost $1.15 and up), you can save a TON by using them.

Baby's Breath:
I know, you're all wondering if I've lost my mind. I have not, I assure you (though today is testing me). Baby's breath, like carnations, often get a bad rap. But, when allowed to shine alone in a bouquet, they are almost ethereal. They cost about $13.00 a bunch (with 10 to 12 stems), so they are also very economical. Another benefit is their hardy nature. You won't see these guys wilting after a few hours. No, sir! Check out this lovely bouquet.
I may have a florist do these, but they are totally DIY as well. I would recommend ordering flowers from Blooms by the Box, a site I found via another wedding blog.

Centerpieces

I'm cheap. Anyone who knows me knows this.

I've seen so many weddings with beautiful centerpieces made of lovely flowers. Flowers that, by the next day, will be totally and completely dead (or on their way to their death). I just can't see spending thousands of dollars on this. So, no flowers.

I can hear you all saying it now -- "Well, just use candles! They're cheap and easy". I wish. No candles allowed in the old, log lodge. Fire hazard, I suppose. On to something else. But, what will this something else be?

That's where I need help. I'm thinking of hosting an orchard trip as part of the rehearsal dinner. Since it will be fall, North Carolina mountains are only a few miles away and the pre-wedding day is a Saturday (when most people will be off from work), I think we should all take a day trip and pick some apples! We'll then put them in glass vases or in baskets to make the centerpieces. They'll be reusable too!

Here are some inspiration photos.

Colors

So, I've pretty much decided on my color scheme. I'm like 99% sure of what I want. But, I have this one little nagging idea that won't leave me alone. I'm just not sure that idea #2 is appropriate for a fall wedding. Here are the two ideas:

#1 - Royal Blue and Chartreuse (see first photo)
I love royal blue, especially as a color to wear. I think it looks great on every skin tone, it's bright without being neon and it is different. When thinking of a color to pair it with, I wanted something that would reflect my favorite things. Well, since my other favorite color is green, that had to be it. Yes, they are two bold colors together in a pair and yes, they are different. But, I think the chartreuse will allow us to use Granny Smith apples in the decor! So, the wedding will have a fall feel without me having to use orange. Me + orange = no love.

#2 - Aqua and Poppy (red)
I have seen this on Martha Stewart weddings and in several other places. I LOVE this theme, but it seems to be out of season for a fall wedding. For a summer wedding, it can be tweaked for a beach theme. Winter weddings can use the aqua for snowflakes. One other reason I'm not a fan is because I don't want red or aqua bridesmaids dresses. Red isn't my thing and aqua can never be worn again (or very rarely can). I guess I will just have to love this one from afar.

Things I know right now (I think!)

The Venue:
Table Rock State Park Lodge

The Dress/Veil:
It's a secret! I'll say that the dress is a Casablanca and the veil was made by Erica Koesler.

The Food:
Aunt Sue's Country Kitchen, Pickens, SC

The Photographer:
the lovely and talented Jessica Raney!

The Girls:
My MOH is my sister, Kayla. The other girls are close friends that I have known for many years. Anna is my oldest friend (we go way back to 6th grade!). Steph is one of the first people I met at PC and we've been BFF's ever since. Kari is another PC friend who is one of my fave people ever. Megan is our "cupid" since she finally gave us the push to get together!

The Boys:
The Best Man (don't want to abbreviate this as BM...haha!) is Andrew's father. His groomsmen are: Scott, his brother; Joel, his closest friend from Reinhardt and bandmate; Jeff, his bandmate in the WOW; Brad, who is Steph's husband and a good friend of both myself and Andrew.

The Officiant:
Andrew's oldest brother, Jody, is a pastor at Campus Church of Christ in Norcross.

The Videographer:
Andrew's brother-in-law, Aaron, will be filming our wedding as a gift to us. He's extremely talented, so I know it will be great. And since I wasn't planning to spend the $$ on a videographer, getting one for free is so sweet!

That's about all I know for now (or as it should be titled - things I cannot change my mind about).

The Venue

When I started the wedding venue search, I decided that a couple of factors had to be met in order for me to consider a place.

1.) There had to be room for an outdoor ceremony.
2.) The venue had to allow flexibility with regard to vendors, especially caterers.
3.) I didn't want a "wedding factory" venue. IMO, a WF is a place where multiple weddings are held in one day and they all virtually look the same.
4.) The venue had to be less than $1000 to rent, including chairs and tables.
5.) It would have to be centrally located to my family (in the Anderson, SC area) and A's family (in the Athens, GA area).

After much searching, I found a spectacular place...Table Rock State Park lodge! I think it will be an excellent place to hold our wedding, but it is not without its own challenges.

Positives: This beautiful 2 story log lodge has room for an indoor ceremony (in case of inclement weather), a separate reception area, tables and chairs included, and total flexibility with vendors! Plus, it overlooks the lake and Table Rock mountain! The Sunday rental price is only $856, too!

Negatives: You are not allowed into the lodge until 10 AM on the day of your event. So, no rehearsal and no setup until day of. Holy stress, Batman! Also, there are not too many vendors nearby (I did find someone to cater, but that's another post). There are very few places to hold a rehearsal dinner the night before unless you do it in Greenville or Easley (each about 30 miles away). One last thing...we have to do the cleanup.

But, in the end I decided it was worth it. The venue is beautiful, the price was right, it's a unique place to get married, it was in South Carolina and I wouldn't have to spend an arm and a leg to rent chairs at $3 each.

You can see another Table Rock wedding here. Also, check out the pictures below and let me know what you think!

It's been a while

Per Miss Meg Brown, I have to start doing better at the whole "blogging" thing. So, I'm going to do my best. I'm going to leave this post as an apology and recap my wedding plans to date in a few future posts.